The List

41 things to do before turning 42

41 things to do before turning 42

So, every year in anticipation of my birthday, I write a list. Do a set of fifteen regular pushups. Take my parents to visit family in Puerto Rico. Complete a […]

40 things to do before turning 41

40 things to do before turning 41

So, every year in anticipation of my birthday, I write a list. Do a set of fifteen regular pushups. Take my parents to visit family in Puerto Rico. Complete a […]

75 ways to show yourself some love today

75 ways to show yourself some love today

There’s a holiday this week. “Yeah, I know,” you are thinking. Except we are probably talking about different holidays. While Valentine’s Day is indeed tomorrow, today may be an even […]

10 little things that almost instantly give me a boost

10 little things that almost instantly give me a boost

I was making the bed the other morning and an incredible sense of satisfaction came over me.  We make the bed everyday, but I was making the bed a little […]

Life and living the list

Life and living the list

So, if I am completely honest, blogging right now feels so hard.  There are these words that I want to have about what has happened, what we are going through, […]

10 Steps to Stop Feeling Invisible

10 Steps to Stop Feeling Invisible

Today, I am over at Mamiverse talking about invisibility. It’s a common complaint among older women:People don’t look AT me anymore; they look THROUGH me. When an older friend recently […]

The List:  Tools for Processing

The List: Tools for Processing

A friend and I met up today to do so some planning.  And the good thing about our meetings is that they always involve plenty of processing, too.  As it […]